Q & A – How To Blow His Mind Without Getting Kinky

Each week I will be answering a question asked to me by one of my readers. If you have a question you would like me to answer then please contact me here and keep your eye out for my upcoming Q & A. This week a question that was asked was: How can I blow … Continue reading Q & A – How To Blow His Mind Without Getting Kinky

Sensory Play – 5 Ways To Use Sound In The Bedroom

You've got your partner tied up and blindfolded, but what do you do now?! You follow my sensory series on sound, taste, touch and smell of course! Here are 5 things you can do that will arouse your partner using sound. 1. Erotic audio books - Play an erotic audio book and pleasure your partner … Continue reading Sensory Play – 5 Ways To Use Sound In The Bedroom

8 Very Weird Condom Flavours

Inspired by the recent Durex hoax involving eggplant flavoured condoms, I decided to hunt for the strangest flavours actually on the market. When it comes to flavoured condoms most of us have tried the standard, strawberry, bubblegum, orange, chocolate etc. But have any of you tried these crazy flavours? 1. ESP have a trio of … Continue reading 8 Very Weird Condom Flavours

8 Ways To Increase Stamina In The Bedroom

One of the things I often hear my girlfriends complaining about is their partners lack of stamina. Short and sweet loving seems to be a common theme in many a bedroom and although some women don't mind ( I don't) some feel they've been left high and dry. If you're worried you don't have the stamina … Continue reading 8 Ways To Increase Stamina In The Bedroom

What is Autoandrophilia and Autogynephilia?

Discovering that I was an autoandrophilia took time. I knew my desires were different to the 'standard' but there really wasn't much information on it available online. When I finally found a description of autoandrophilia and realised that others felt the same way as I did it was, if I'm honest, a relief. An autoandrophilia … Continue reading What is Autoandrophilia and Autogynephilia?

What is Ecosexuality?

In light of the current ecosexual bathhouse at the Syndey LiveWorks Festival of experimental art I decided to do a blog post about ecosexuality. Ecosexuality is a romantic and sexual love of nature and the earth. It is a form of environmental eroticism. An ecosexual may buy organic produce and enjoy using environmentally friendly sex … Continue reading What is Ecosexuality?

9 Best Places to Safely Have Sex in Public

There is nothing quite like a cheeky quickie in a public place. It comes high on many people's sexual bucket lists and for good reason. The excitement of possibly getting caught and doing something so naughty is a guaranteed mood accelerator . Here's a list of some of the best places to do it in … Continue reading 9 Best Places to Safely Have Sex in Public

Sensory Play – How to arouse your partner through their taste buds

Men think about sex 19 times a day and food 18 times! It's clear combining the two is a match made in heaven. Sensory play in the bedroom involves blindfolding yourself or your partner in order to heighten your other 4 senses. This is one of my favourite bedroom activities so I am doing a … Continue reading Sensory Play – How to arouse your partner through their taste buds

10 Sexy Foods to use in the Bedroom

A lot of the time the only senses that get remembered in the bedroom are sight and touch. However taste, smell and sound can all also be used to arouse and stimulate. Here are 10 fun and sexy foods to take out of the kitchen and into the bedroom. ⦁ Fruit - My top picks … Continue reading 10 Sexy Foods to use in the Bedroom

Exercises to Strengthen your Pelvic Floor Muscles

Having weak pelvic floor muscles can cause numerous problems. After ignoring my midwife and skipping my post baby exercises a few that I experienced were leaking urine when being sick or when on a trampoline and reduced vaginal sensation. We all want a tight vagina for ourselves and often for our partners too. There are … Continue reading Exercises to Strengthen your Pelvic Floor Muscles